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Knowing is not the same as doing.
People can understand exactly how they want to act and still behave differently once the situation becomes real.
THE THINKING BEHIND CUEPOINT
CuePoint begins in the gap between
what we know and what we actually do.
THE GAP
Most people do not need to be told that listening is useful, that preparation matters or that staying calm after a mistake can help.
The difficult part often begins later.
The situation speeds up. Something unexpected happens. Emotion enters. Attention moves. And the behaviour that made perfect sense beforehand is no longer the behaviour that appears.
SIX IDEAS
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People can understand exactly how they want to act and still behave differently once the situation becomes real.
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Mistakes, results, emotion, other people, uncertainty and habit all compete for attention.
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Outcomes are important. They simply do not give us direct control over what happens next.
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What we actually do can be noticed, practised, adjusted and repeated.
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The closer reflection happens to the situation, the easier it is to remember what actually happened rather than reconstruct a story later.
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If the tool becomes another demanding task, it starts competing with the thing it was meant to support.
ATTENTION IS LIMITED
Attention is pulled by what feels urgent, emotional, threatening, surprising or rewarding.
That is useful. It is also why a good intention can disappear at exactly the moment we hoped to use it.
CONTROL
We can care deeply about an outcome without having direct control over it.
Winning, being understood, getting agreement or receiving a certain reaction all depend partly on things outside us.
CuePoint therefore keeps the working focus closer to actions that can actually be chosen and practised.
RESULT
Win the match
WORKING FOCUS
Commit to the next action
RESULT
Make the student understand
WORKING FOCUS
Ask before explaining
RESULT
Get agreement
WORKING FOCUS
Listen before solving
RESULT
Make the client feel better
WORKING FOCUS
Stay curious
REFLECTION
How did it go?
The first question is natural.
The second often gives us more to work with.
CuePoint does not remove results from reflection. It adds information about the behaviour that produced the experience.
LESS VERDICT. MORE INFORMATION.
A bad result does not automatically mean the process was poor. A good result does not automatically mean the process was good.
Following behaviour over repeated situations gives us a different kind of information: what is stable, what disappears, what changes under pressure and what might be worth practising next.
CLOSE TO ACTION
Ask someone on Friday what happened in Tuesday's training and memory has already started editing the experience.
We remember highlights, outcomes, emotions and stories more easily than the small behaviours repeated throughout a situation.
CuePoint therefore tries to make reflection quick enough to happen close to the activity.
WHY SO SIMPLE?
More data is not automatically more useful.
Long forms, detailed notes and complicated systems can produce excellent information — if people actually use them.
CuePoint makes a different trade-off. Keep the input small enough that it can survive real life.
A few selected processes. A quick rating. Optional detail when it adds value.
CONTEXT MATTERS
The same behaviour can be useful in one situation and unhelpful in another.
Good coaching, teaching, leadership, performance or therapeutic work still requires knowledge and judgement.
CuePoint helps keep the chosen behaviour available once that thinking has already been done.
THIS IS WHERE FRAMEWORKS ENTER
You should not have to solve every development question while the situation is already happening.
A Framework packages a small amount of thinking in advance: what may be useful to pay attention to here?
That is also why CuePoint can learn from the experience of other people.
KNOWLEDGE DOES NOT ONLY LIVE IN BOOKS
A teacher, coach, athlete, therapist, referee or leader can spend years learning what helps in a particular situation.
CuePoint gives some of that practical knowledge a form that can be shared, adapted and tested by somebody else.
Not because one person's answer should become everyone's answer. Because good thinking can be a better starting point than an empty page.
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